Family Discussion Time

Mask Part 1: “I’m Fine” Mask

Family Questions

  1. Do you really believe that God sees the real you and likes you?
  2. Have your child explain to you the 3 main points of the message this week. 

 

Drop It Part 3- Rights

Family Challenge

*Instead of questions this week, we have a challenge for our families. Please sit down and read the following passages as a family each day. We pray that this will challenge and help your family this week. 

Day 1:John 1:1–18

Day 2:John 3:1–21

Day 3: John 4:1–26

Day 4: John 8:1–11

Day 5:John 10:1–18

Day 6:John 13:1–17

Day 7:John 19:16–42, 20:1–31–

 

Drop It Part 2- Plans

Family Questions

  1. Why should we trust God with something as big as our future?
  2.   Why do you think God chooses to use ordinary people so much in the Bible?
  3. Challenge: For the next week, as a family, try to pray together about your family’s future once a day. 

 

Drop It Part 1- Past

Family Questions: 

  1. What helps you to remember that you will always have a future because of Jesus?
  2.   How could we focus on Jesus instead of our problems?
  3. Mary became a powerhouse for the kingdom of God by putting her whole life in His hands, despite her past. What big thing is God calling you to, that you are being held back from because you haven’t dropped your past?

 

Go

Parent Questions

  1. Read Luke 10:25-37, as a family. How can your family live out the teachings of this parable in your day to day life?
  2. Over the past three weeks, we have discussed what it means to “glorify, grow, and go”. Parents, what can you do to help insure that your student is living into those three words? What about for yourself?

 

Grow

Parent Questions

  1. What ways can your family assist each other to grow spiritually?

(Read Hebrews 10: 23-25 And Answer the Following Questions.)

  1. What sticks out at you in these verses?
  2. Where do we see Jesus Christ in these verses?
  3. How does this scripture apply to your household?
  4. Take time for every family member to express a way they will try to daily connect to God.
  5. How are you going to start growing in your faith weekly as a family? How can you start on this effort today?

Glorify

Parent Questions

  1. How does knowing that you were created to Glorify God and to enjoy Him forever impacts the way your family plans their week? Month? Year?
  2. What do you think it means to give God your heart?
  3. Why is it important to worship God as a disciple?
  4. Attending a church worship is important, why?
  5. What does daily worship look like? What does it look like specifically for your family to do together?
  6. Read These Verses together: After reading, sum up what these verses are saying and put them in your own words.
    1. John 15:4-5,8
    2. Ephesians 2:10
    3. 1 Corinthians 10:31
  7. What do these verses tell us about glorifying God? In what ways can we live these verses out?
  8. How are you going to start glorifying God Daily and weekly as a family?

 

Chasing Seagulls

Parent Questions

  1. Take time for the parents and then the youth to share a couple “seagulls” that they have chased in the past?
  2. Read prodigal son story (Luke 15:11-32). What were the seagulls that the son chose to chase after? Why do you think he did this?
  3. Close your eyes. Think about what you did over this past summer. What were the major priorities that you had?
  4. How can your family prioritize chasing after a relationship with Christ?
  5. In what ways can you help each others as a family to chase the right things in life?

*Weekly challenge: Plug into a worship service this week as a family and experience God Together.

Squad Up! Part 2

Parent Questions

  1. If you had to name the top three goals for your family, what would they be? How do you go about reaching them?
  2. What do you think God’s goals for your family our?
  3. Close your eyes. Think about what your family did over the last week. What were the major priorities that your family had for the week. Name the top three. Did those three priorities bring your family or anyone else closer to Jesus?

*Weekly challenge: Read the Great Commission, in Mathew 28:16-20, as a family and pray for God to help your family see what he may be calling y’all to do,

 

Squad Up! Part 1

Parent Questions

  1. Where do you feel like your place in your family is? What about your school? Are you happy with that place? Would you like for it to change?
  2. Can you define, as a family, where your Jerusalem, Judea and Samaria, and the ends of the earth are? (Acts 1:7-8)
  3. God did not call us to do any of this on our own. Your family is part of your “squad”? How can you help each other?

*Weekly challenge: Go back to number 2. Who was your “squad” in those places? How can you better serve and encourage one of those “squads” this week? Do it!

Finish Strong

Parent Questions

  1. “I’m not saying that I have this all together, that I have it made. But I am well on my way, reaching out for Christ, who has so wondrously reached out for me. Friends, don’t get me wrong: By no means do I count myself an expert in all of this, but I’ve got my eye on the goal, where God is beckoning us onward—to Jesus. I’m off and running, and I’m not turning back.” Philippians 3:12-14 (The Message)  How can each of your family members help each other to keep this attitude of Paul’s?
  2. The summer is quickly approaching for your student. They are smelling the finish line of final exam’s. How can you help to keep them focused on the current task at hand and not look ahead?
  3. How is each family member striving toward the final goal in their walk with Jesus? What does this personally look like?

*Weekly challenge: As we are preparing our hearts during this lenten season for Easter, we challenge you and your family to read through the crucifixion story at least once a week. What a beautiful reminder that we are never too far gone because of what Jesus did for us that day on the cross. This week read the crucifixion story in John 19.

 

Perspective

Parent Questions

  1. Think of a time when you were mad at God… Did you talk to him about it? Or, did you keep it in to yourself?
  2. How, as a family, can you help hold each other accountable for praying on a regular basis?
  3. This week, try to gather at least once a day to pray as a family. 

*Weekly challenge: As we are preparing our hearts during this lenten season for Easter, we challenge you and your family to read through the crucifixion story at least once a week. What a beautiful reminder that we are never too far gone because of what Jesus did for us that day on the cross. This week read the crucifixion story in Luke 23

 

Godliness Training

Parent Questions

  1. As a family, share a time in your life when you experienced or went through a type of training? How did that shape you? How did it prepare you?
  2. What does Godliness mean to you? How can you relate your experience with training (that was shared before) to training to be more Godly?
  3. How can you, as a family, help each other to become more Godly on a daily basis?

*Weekly challenge: As we are preparing our hearts during this lenten season for Easter, we challenge you and your family to read through the crucifixion story at least once a week. What a beautiful reminder that we are never too far gone because of what Jesus did for us that day on the cross. This week read the crucifixion story in Mark 15:21-38

 

Never Too Far Gone by Noel Fisher

Parent Questions

  1. Read 1 Timothy 1:12-14 from the Message version.
  2. What is the difference of conditional love compared to unconditional love?
  3. Who are the people in our lives who have conditional love for us?
  4.  Who are the people who have unconditional love for us?
  5.  Share where you have experienced unconditional love from God with your child.

*Weekly challenge: As we are preparing our hearts during this lenten season for Easter, we challenge you and your family to read through the crucifixion story at least once a week. What a beautiful reminder that we are never too far gone because of what Jesus did for us that day on the cross. This week read the crucifixion story in Mathew 27:27-44

 

Week Four “And it was Good” Video and Questions

  1. How can we, as a family, remind each other how much God loves us. How can we help to remind each other to love ourselves?
  2. How does what Jesus did on the cross for us show us to love ourself?
  3. What is one major thought that you learned through this creation series?

*Weekly Challenge: Take time to right down the things that you feel God has blessed you the ability to do. Take time to be in prayer and meditation about thanking God for the amazing way he created. If you are having a hard time seeing the way God made you special Ask your friends, parents and small group leaders.

Week Three “And it was Good” Video and Questions

1. How do you think Adam felt before God created Eve?
2. We were created to be in relationship with one another because that is the way God designed it. If that is so, why do we sometimes put some relationships higher than others? Or some people higher than others?
3.God created everyone and called it good. When we talk about a friend, do we always remember that they are God’s creation?

Take some time this week and read Read Genesis 2:18-23 as a family

*Weekly Challenge: What is a way as a family we can help to remind one another of this?

 

Week Two “And it was Good” Video and Questions

Parent Questions Week 2 Relationship with God

  1. What does the phrase “broken relationship” mean to you? Do you have any relationships that you feel like are broken? We were created to be in relationship. That is why God created us, to be in relationship with him. And, Eve for Adam. 
  2. In what ways are you filling the part of you that was made to be in relationship with God? Are they good ways or not so good? How can you change this?
  3. Have you sought God for a relationship? If not, why not?
  4. Through Jesus, we have the opportunity to mend our broken relationship with God! How does that make you feel? How will you respond.

Take some time this week to read Genesis 3 and discuss with your family.

*Weekly Challenge: Find a way as a family to connect to God on a daily basis together. It may be reading, praying, or simply talking. We can connect to God in all kind of ways!

 

 

 

Week one “And it was Good” Video and Questions

Parent Questions Week 1 Creation

  1. How are you experiencing creation on a daily basis? How is your family experiencing creation together? 
  2. How do you challenge your student to experience and learn more about God’s creation. 
  3. Genesis tells us that God created ALL of us in HIS image and “it was good”. Do you always believe that? 
  4. Teenagers sometimes have a difficult time believing that they are a beautiful creation of God and they are made in his likeness. How do you encourage your child to see this? 

Take some time this week to read Genesis 1-2 and discuss with your family.

*Weekly Challenge: This week as a family go enjoy God’s creation, as a family, in a way you may not have thought of before.